In this episode of the Perform Happy Podcast, I sit down with NCAA gymnast Abigayle Martin to talk about performing scared, overcoming mental blocks, trusting yourself under pressure, and finding what helps you compete with confidence. Abby shares how a mental block at 10 years old shaped the athlete she is today and why learning to work with fear, instead of waiting for it to disappear, changed everything.
Abby opens up about competing at the highest levels of college gymnastics while still feeling nervous before routines. She explains why fear is a normal part of performance, how she developed her own mental routines, and why young athletes should never feel like they have to do things exactly the way everyone else does. We also talk about the importance of communicating with coaches, advocating for yourself, and learning what helps you perform your best.
In this episode you will hear:
- Why it’s okay to perform scared
- How mental blocks can become opportunities for growth
- The importance of finding a mental routine that works for you
- Why young athletes should learn to advocate for themselves
- How communication builds stronger relationships with coaches
- Why brushing off a bad meet and moving forward matters
This conversation is a powerful reminder that confidence isn’t the absence of fear. It’s learning to trust yourself, your preparation, and your ability to keep showing up. Young athletes don’t need to feel fearless to succeed. They just need the tools to keep going, one routine at a time.
